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acko

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #60 on March 03, 2015, 10:18:05 am by acko »
 who to say was the preditor,star struck young girl famous footballer 



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Lipsy

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #61 on March 03, 2015, 10:33:51 am by Lipsy »
Yeah, but some folk seem determined to pin the blame on someone who is legally regarded as a child (and we do need to remember that no-one's been charged of an offence and the specifics have not come to light).

IF this is what happened:

1. The parents utterly failed to look after their child.
2. The bouncers failed to do their job properly.
3. The club failed to do its job, both in terms of providing an adult environment in which people can have a few beers and it failed to protect a minor.

Nevermind all this nonsense about predators; the above is to blame IF this is what happened. There's absolutely no wiggle room on this.

Jenny

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #62 on March 03, 2015, 10:49:55 am by Jenny »
If the girl told him she was 15 then string him out, but I imagine that is unlikely. I think people should wait for the facts to emerge before judging Johnson.

acko

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #63 on March 03, 2015, 11:35:47 am by acko »
glad you responded jenny interested to hear womens perspective,what I will say I had young daughters(grown up now)when they went out I did ask were they was going but I didn't follow them and I beleaved what they told me,if I thought they were overdressed to make them look decidedly older I would certainly have said so but you cant put a chain round their knecks

Scooter

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #64 on March 03, 2015, 11:44:37 am by Scooter »
This girl same age . well was when photo taken.

Zoom in on just her face. School girl features IMO

Lipsy

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #65 on March 03, 2015, 11:52:03 am by Lipsy »
That's not a Google search I want to do.

Wild Rover

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #66 on March 03, 2015, 12:09:57 pm by Wild Rover »
No one suggested you do a search. It was simply to illustrate how deceiving looks and dress can be. Removed now.

Lipsy

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #67 on March 03, 2015, 12:22:20 pm by Lipsy »
Trust me, I wasn't going to do that search.

Thing is, I have repeatedly pointed out where the failings are/might have been (parents/door people/club) and I think it's pretty on the nose. We also have a pretty good system in place when it comes to selling alcohol in shops and off licenses, which goes something along the lines of 'prove you're the age you say you are. If we're not 100% certain/happy (for whatever reason), we still won't sell it to you.' And it works because the penalties for getting it wrong are steep. Clubs work on the basis of 'close enough' which - I would argue - isn't good enough.

acko

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #68 on March 03, 2015, 12:36:23 pm by acko »
on that point lipsy a pub or club don't need a reason to refuse to serve or allow admission even if you look 50 they have the right to refuse without reason,could cause problems regarding race,but if in doubt don't allow

GazLaz

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #69 on March 03, 2015, 01:01:40 pm by GazLaz »
Whilst I don't disagree if you limit it to how someone looks, I do disagree when you take into account having a conversation with these youngsters. I assume people do still have a conversation before jumping into bed? 5 minutes chat would show their age very easily. And anyway, Acko, it's very counter cultural these days to suggest some girls may fall victim to predators encouraged by how they present themselves.

BobG


Bob, with all due respect I think your opinion of a modern 15yo is a generation out of date. There are plenty out on a Saturday night that you wouldn't believe we're under 18, that's looks and attitude.

Bentley Bullet

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #70 on March 03, 2015, 03:20:27 pm by Bentley Bullet »
How on earth can you differentiate between a 15 and a 16 year old? The difficulty to make a distinction between them is the very reason why it is dangerous territory.

Lipsy

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #71 on March 03, 2015, 05:25:36 pm by Lipsy »
As a society we can do it with fags and we can do it with booze and sharp knives. There's no excuse.

And there is no excuse for any bloke. NONE. None whatsoever. We might argue that the laws are different in France, Holland, Spain or wherever, but there's no excuse.

BobG

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Re: I wonder who this could be?
« Reply #72 on March 03, 2015, 11:04:58 pm by BobG »
You're probably right Gaz..... It's been a while since I chatted up a 15, 16 or even 18 year old. Still think a conversation would allow a fairly good estimate to be made - but maybe I really am light years behind the times? Does yoof converse before copulation these days?

BobG

 

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